Pastor Tony and Breanne Wood

Mission Bible Church, Costa Mesa CA

With one child having developmental and social disorders, our life wasn’t just hectic, it was overwhelming. However, we believe that ‘training hearts’, through Christ, has done what psychology and medication couldn’t have done, and allowed our little guy to love God and love others.   Our oldest son went from being one of the most myopic, judgmental, and demanding children I’d ever seen.  We now enjoy having a buddy, gym partner, care-taker, and sensitive leader, and this by the age of 5.  The class allowed us to move past training behavior and focus on training hearts. This has created a home culture that exists to glorify God and develop committed followers of Jesus Christ (instead of robots).  There has been such an improvement in school!  Our son started a school program at age 3 and we were called the first day because of his tantrums and misbehavior.  A year later and after we took Training Hearts for Jesus biblical parenting class, we enrolled him in Pre-K, and he came home with a super-star award after the first day!  God is good!  There has also been improvement in the area of his attitude and his abilities as seen through extra curricular activities.  Our son tended to be individualistic and thus, did not perform well in team-settings. He now plays with friends in the neighborhood and our home has become the place for team games, such as baseball, football, soccer, and dinner!

My wife was a strong influence in my taking this class, for which I am eternally grateful! I had doubts the first week, but by week two I was sold.  We saw progress immediately following each principle that was instituted.  We are so happy we took this parenting class and have already recommended it to many.  There were many days before THfJ where we felt overwhelmed by the job of parenting.  Our home felt chaotic after having children & there was little peace.  After starting the class, the atmosphere of our home immediately changed; we had direction & a plan for our home & our lives.  The class was also paramount in opening up lines of communication between my wife and me.  That was one of the highlights. Common cause, common experience, common enemy, all equate to bonding a couple around the nucleus of God’s word!   People say that “content is king” when it comes to training, but I’d add that “content is king IF it’s shared by authentic voices.” That’s what works about THFJ. Mario, Sharon, and the other leaders are “eating what they’re selling” and are committed to it! They are not only great communicators, but committed disciples of Christ, and this comes across in their weekly passion for the topic of biblical parenting with those they lead through the process!

When we have left the children with the grandparents in the past, we were fearful of how they would behave and what we would hear when we returned.  Now, we have confidence that when we leave them, they will treat authority, property & their peers with respect.  The grandparents now tell us that they are blessed when they stay with them and appreciate their obedience.

We love the way the class has changed our relationship with our children!  With order brought into the home, each evening we are able to institute “prayer journals” where, on top of Bible reading, we keep notes on daily prayers and hopes. God is now answering their faithful prayers – seeing people in our church blessed, miracles happen in our societal context, and their adopted siblings in Africa cared for – We now have a life-long family documentation, together, of God’s stirring in our home!  Our whole family is walking closer to the Lord as a result of Training Hearts for Jesus!  This isn’t just a class on what God will do through your child but a discipleship class on what God wants to do in you, as the parent!  We believe the biblical principles taught through this class are resulting in blessings for our children and their future.  Generational curses were broken and a new legacy was founded.  We believe that generations will be bettered due to the changes we have made in our family as a result of this class. Specifically, I pray we all learn to love and lead our children for who THEY are, and who God made them to be, and not who WE want them to be.

Pastor Brett and Aimie Skinner

Like most parents, we desired obedient children who respected and were a blessing to those around them, but were at a loss when it came to bringing them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord (Eph. 6:4). Our pastor recommended we take this class, so we signed our entire life group up to take it together. What Mario and Sharon have created with Training Hearts for Jesus is life altering. They combine the wisdom and truths found in God's word and deliver it in such a practical, encouraging, and insightful way. 
 
We recently had to take our two year old to the emergency room for stitches. The doctors and nurses warned us our child would kick and flail and not like them. To their bewilderment, he responded with self control and gratitude, when they expected screaming and hitting. We know this was a direct outcome of the faithful application of this class to our roles as parents. 

Our focus as parents has changed from the outward behavior of our children, to reaching and training our children's hearts with God's word. This 14 week class may seem like a large commitment, but it is a drop in the bucket compared to the time we have with our children. If you diligently apply the biblical wisdom provided in this class, you will find that peace in your home is possible (even with young children), your marriage can thrive, and your children can and will be a blessing to those around them. 

Jonathan and Gita Thompson

"We can't speak highly enough of Training Hearts for Jesus.  As with most parents our initial tendency was to simply focus on our children's behavior, but THFJ has redirected our attention to where the true battle lies: our children's hearts.  The class uses a few different mediums to outline and reinforce the Biblical perspective and methods needed for rearing our children unto God -- our most important task as parents.   Gita and I are unified in our approach, have common goals, and our children are thriving under the consistency and structure of a Christ-centered home.  Our children aren't perfect (and neither are we!) but much of the fruit we see coming from our kids we attribute to what we first learned in this class.  Excited to take it for a 3rd time this January!"

Pastor Chris and Brianna Kirish

Renovate Church, Long Beach, CA

 
There is so much I could say about Training Hearts and Mario and Sharon. My wife Brianna I became aware of Training Hearts several years ago when my long time mentor Tony Wood recommended their class to me. In my late twenties I asked him the best thing I could do at that stage of my life to be a better pastor, husband, and father. “I recommend you take a 14 week parenting class called Training Hearts for Jesus. Oh, and by the way it costs money.” 
 
As a young pastor whose finances had always been tight I thought that sounds like a waste of time and money, and besides I’m a pretty good husband and father. I don’t need to take a parenting class. Several years later my wife and I began to feel the pain of parenting three young kids 5, 3, and 2 and I reached out to Tony and asked him pretty much the same question but this time not in curiosity but in desperation. He very politely paused, sat back, and then gently said, “You may remember a parenting class I told you to take a few years back called Training Hearts for Jesus.” I immediately apologized and affirmed I did not follow his advice and grudgingly signed up for the class hoping I could learn a little. 
 

Today, I can tell you that both my wife and I believe taking the Training Hearts for Jesus class is the best and most life transformational thing we’ve ever done in our family. It has helped my wife and I to be one in parenting and in marriage for areas we used to be divided. We have learned biblical parenting principles that have completely changed the way we function in marriage and in parenting and we have seen the fruit in our home. We have learned the difference between parenting to have well behaved children and shepherding their hearts to love and follow Jesus. 

Most parenting help is about an outside-in approach and helping parents get what they want. Well-behaved children who are polite and impressive in family functions. Training Hearts is about an inside-out approach. Training Hearts is not about raising well-behaved citizens but rather raising true disciples of Christ who you don’t have to worry about their faith when they go off to college. Friends and family quite frequently praise the love and obedience they see in our children. They tell us how impressed they are with how well our children know the Bible, how much they love to pray, and how great of an example they are in class during worship. We use it as an opportunity to share all that God has done in our lives through the ministry of Training Hearts. 

John and Michelle L. Vorwerk, Psy.D

In a world filled with so many parenting "styles" and "methods," my husband and I did not know where to turn for guidance on how to raise our son. As a psychologist, I had studied all the developmental and attachment theory methods. Then, I had a baby. I quickly found out that studying how to be a good parent and actually being a good parent were two very different things. The Training Hearts for Jesus Parenting Class provided the answer we were looking for - raising our son according biblical principles. As we went through the class I was absolutely floored at what God reveals in His Word about

how to raise a child. He is specific and detailed about how He wants us to raise our children. We were amazed each week as we came to class to learn and began implementing what we were learning in our son's life. The thought which kept emerging in my mind, "I've struck gold!"  The class is a big commitment, but a worthy investment. We hear from other people all the time that we have such a "good" and "compliant" son. This is by no accident, he has been trained under God's Word and authority. The skills we learned in this class are foundational to our son's future as a steward of God. I cannot recommend this class highly enough and we were blessed tremendously by Mario and Sharon as they poured their hearts into teaching us the foundations of raising a godly child.

Nate and Christina Rosales

Training Hearts for Jesus has been a tremendous blessing, not just for our children, but for us as parents! The Lord used Mario and Sharon mightily to show us how to navigate His Word faithfully with eternity in mind—from practical day-to-day parenting tips to lifelong principles that transcend all life stages! While no one parents perfectly, this course will allow everyone who locks in to parent confidently and biblically. The aim is the heart, not behavior!

Matt and Taren Long

“Highly recommend this class! 

If your first desire as parents is to raise Godly children, look no further. This class will equip you to constantly point your children to Christ, in the happy times and in times of discipline. Scripture is woven throughout each weeks lesson. There are practical principles to apply immediately each week with your children. The homework is broken up into small chunks for each day, so it’s not overwhelming. The homework is so encouraging and practical. The class is all about training our children to look to God’s word as an instruction manual for life. Sharon and Mario are such a blessing, and show wholeheartedly that they care for each member of the class and their children. They do not “sugar coat” the truths of biblical parenting and that is so refreshing and necessary today. They are a wonderful team who guide the class with organization, care, and love. Overall, 10/10 on this course, it’s a must!”

Layne and Natalie Higgins

My husband and I were truly blessed to be a part of the Training Hearts class this year!  We have three children ages 8, 7, and 5 and were looking for biblical advice in moving into the “kid” years and shifting our focus to training their hearts, not just behavior correction.  This class helped us in so many ways!  We learned how vital the Word is to training our children’s hearts (and ours in the process!).  There was so much scripture woven into the curriculum, and it caused us to dive deeper into the Word in the process.  We also learned many practical, biblical methods for intentionally training their hearts, and Sharon and Mario were so open about their parenting experiences, which helped us to feel comfortable coming to them with questions and frustrations.  We were taught the value of discipling our children and helping them to understand their sin and offense against a holy God.  Also, the value of hearing from other parents and knowing you are not alone in this season of life was so 

comforting.  Overall, we grew closer to Christ, our kids, and each other in the whole process as we discussed our goals for parenting and prayed more than ever before for each other and our kids.  I wouldn't hesitate to recommend this class to any and all parents, no matter their children’s ages!

Mike and Jen Otazu

In the first century, Paul told Timothy that "All Scripture is God-breathed and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness" (2 Tim 3:16). In the twenty-first century, most Christians affirm this truth wholeheartedly, but only some actually apply it to their parenting. My wife and I were one of the many who knew that we should rely on Scripture but often looked to the world (or to other confused Christian parents) for parenting advice. We trusted the Lord with the big stuff but assumed that He didn't have much to say about the day-to-day stuff. How wrong we were!
 
When my wife and I were blessed with our first child, it didn't take long for us to realize that we needed help. We weren't prepared for how quickly and fiercely sin surfaced. We would often scratch our heads, asking each other if we should be disciplining for some new behavior we'd just seen pop up. We'd fall back on our own parents' styles or even worse—just what felt right. Mr. and Mrs. Cannavo helped us understand that the foundational truths contained in Scripture have much to say about the little things of parenting. God has spoken—we have no need to guess. He has already provided us with the ultimate parenting guide. God's Word is filled with deep truths that, when interpreted and understood faithfully, have applications that reach into the home and shape the way we interact with the children with whom He has blessed us. 

From struggling on the changing table at 6 months old, to courting and young-adulthood, Mr. and Mrs. Cannavo gifted us with invaluable tips and strategies from their many years of experiential wisdom. BUT, even more valuable than this, they helped shape our parenting worldview into one that is deeply rooted in Scripture. It was a paradigm shift for us—sometimes painful to unlearn bad habits—but I wouldn't change a thing. Do yourself, your children, and your children's future spouses a favor—take this class!

Pastor Albert and Alix Kilgore

Mission Bible Church, East Valley, AZ

Ali and I took the THFJ Parenting Class with Mario and Sharon back in 2012 when our oldest son was 2 years old. Their class allowed us to find strength and courage in Scripture to parent God's way. You will be blessed and encouraged by taking their Parenting Class, don't wait!

Melvin and Stephanie Tobaru

Training Hearts is a life-changing experience that has first and foremost strengthened our walk with God. We came into the class thinking we were going to learn how to "fix" our children, but it was clear since day 1 that it wasn't so much about our children, as it was about our walk with God and our obedience to Him to train them in the way that they should go. The class has also strengthened our marriage as we both now know what God expects from us as parents and we can lovingly hold each other accountable, and lift each other up when faced with parenting issues. The class has given us practical AND biblically-based tools that we use every day, and have become so much a part of our lives. Our family is stronger and closer because of the biblically-based parenting we have implemented in our home. We have a 4-, 2-, and 1-year old and we can honestly say that our home is not only filled with love but also peace and harmony.

We are so grateful for Mario and Sharon for their faithfulness! They are such incredible mentors!

Jason and Shari Blakely

My husband and I originally took the “Training Hearts for Jesus” class that began in June 2011. A few of our friends recommended the class and said, “I wish I had known these things when my kids were younger”. As a pregnant, stay at home mom with a toddler (under 2 years old); I quickly became overwhelmed by my role as a wife and mother. My husband and I wanted to implement more biblical principals into our son’s everyday life, but didn’t know exactly how to do that. THfJ provided a wonderful guideline that takes the guesswork out of what God expects from those who are chosen to raise his children.

The instructors were constantly taking us to God’s Word, which was the training that we needed in order to do the same for our children.  My husband and I no longer look at just the behavior, but at the “heart issue” of the behavior. THfJ also helps parents to maneuver  

through the “how” of getting to the “heart issue”. This continues to be a challenge, but I am incredibly grateful to have started this process while my kids are young.  As a result, our house (for the most part) is a pleasant and fun place to be, our friends and family are excited to have our son around them and many strangers have complemented us on how well behaved our two-year is.

This class is a call to action for parents who want to raise Christian leaders and children who will “glorify God and enjoy Him forever”. It is our duty, as parents, to “train them up in the way they should go and when they are old they will not turn from it” (Proverbs 22:6).

Les and Tracie Griffin

My husband Les and I finished this class back in October 2011. We have two children. Their names our Emma  and Kai. They are four and five years old with twelve months between them. Taking this class was the best thing we ever did for our family!! It did amazing things in our parenting and in our marriage.  We learned how to talk with our children and how to truly get to their hearts.  We learned helpful tools in all areas of parenting. This class helped us to look deeper into our roles as parents and the future goals of our entire family. We have made LIFE changes that have helped us to be stronger, more patient, involved parents. I just wish we had taken the class sooner.

Aaron and Suzanne McKay

"Training Hearts for Jesus is an invaluable tool for parents who want to gain a clear vision of biblical parenting.  Not only will you take a closer look at what God's Word says, but you will begin to pursue Him more richly and deeply as you examine your own heart and motives in your parenting journey.  Full of biblical truth, practical advice, and years of wisdom, Sharon Cannavo's boldly and beautifully written text will help you gain new insight and tools into raising your child to be more Christ like.  Our home is a more peaceful, joy-filled and loving place because of this resource."